What We Lived

One afternoon.
A whole life, kept.

Sit down with someone in your family and record the conversation. We turn that one afternoon into a book of their life — in their own words, with their voice kept beside every page.

Why one afternoon

Every other way of doing this asks an 84-year-old to do a year of homework. A question arrives each week. They're meant to sit alone and write.

Most of them never finish, and the family ends up with nothing. It isn't a discipline problem. Nobody remembers their life on a schedule, and nobody tells the truth to a form.

People remember out loud, to someone they love, when a question lands at the right moment and the next one follows from the answer. That takes one good conversation — not fifty-two prompts and a year of guilt.

How it works
  1. We send the questions

    Drawn from the interview methods researchers actually use to open up a life, and built around the person you're recording. Print it, bring it, ignore half of it.

  2. You record the conversation

    An hour, or three. At the kitchen table, on the phone in your pocket. No app to fight with — just the two of you talking.

  3. We make the book

    Their life story in their own voice, and every moment of the recording kept for as long as your family wants it.

The book
  • Typeset like a real book. Chapters, a title page, their name on the cover — not a transcript in a document.
  • Their photographs. Full-page, captioned in their own words.
  • Delivered as a print-ready file. Read it on a screen, or take it to any printer and have it bound.
  • Print as many as you like. One for every child, and no one to ask.
What a page holds
“There were nine of us in three rooms. I didn't know we were poor until somebody told me, and I've never quite believed them since.”
heard at 47:12

An illustration of the format. Every line in the finished book carries the moment it was said, and you can play it.

The promise

We never invent a word. Every sentence traces back to a moment in the recording. You can press play and hear them say it.

Yours, permanently

The recording is the part that can't be replaced. We treat it that way.

Be the first to sit down.

Thank you — we'll be in touch when it opens.

One email when it opens. Nothing else, ever.